So Tom's brother flew halfway around the world to meet a girl and now after a week they have decided to get married.
Why do I always feel like I'm getting left behind?
I know my time is my time but somehow I can never stop comparing myself to where others are. It's sad. I know.
I wish I could let go of wondering if I'd be better off there or there and just be happy being here--drown in art and self-expression rather than crumbling to dust because I feel like my life is a desert compared to the lives of others.
Tom and I have been together for almost 2 years but time shouldn't matter. If we are compatible we are compatible. If we aren't, we aren't. And so we are and we aren't.
Saturday, October 15, 2005
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My guess is that you'll know when is the time. If it is never with Tom, you'll have to eventually realize it. Hopefully one of the two of you will take things into your own hands and get the ball rolling soon. It doesn't have to be him.
Marriage doesn't say anything. Some people get divorced within a week too.
Just enjoy your relationship. Right now is what counts.
I agree with Jag. I think it's better to put it off until you are absolutely certain than go through a divorce. Sometimes I look at everyone in my high school class who is married, then I look at all the ones on their SECOND or even THIRD marriage and I'm pretty happy to be where I am in life.
cant compare yourself to others, phx. everyone is in diffrent places in their lives for diffrent reasons.
Phil: I hope so. I think you are right, being married already and all. :)
Mindy & Jag: I agree and I don't. I think marriage does say something, just like divorce says something.
So many people get married for so many different reasons and right now I'm so surrounded by it that I'm losing my focus on my OWN relationship.
Ghost: couldn't have said it better. thanks.
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