So I'm talking to one of my ex-boyfriends (or more accurately: one of my rebounds after my ex-fiance and I were done) online tonight, and he's asking me if I have any single friends I could hook him up with. I stall... and say I don't know what kind of girl he's lookin for, and he spits out this gem:
k, well to tell you the trueth ever since we split and stuff I have hoped that you and i would maybe get a 2nd chance, but i guess it will never happen. so basically i would like to meet someone that is like you. you were awsome to me
Mercifully I didn't have to respond, other to say that I was on the phone with my mom and would be right back. He asked me to call him when I'm done.
I don't know if I will. My stir-fry has now turned into a two-hour process with some fucked-up looking chicken. Ew. And part of me will always feel guilty because I didn't tell him the truth when I broke up with him. I told him I didn't have time with all the school stuff, and he was busy a lot too... and on top of that I'd had a little one-night detour after I'd decided to break up with him but hadn't. I didn't have sex with anyone, but it was a date with kissing. The guy never called me again. Ha. Anyway...
Now the damn stir-fry is overflowing out of the biggest bowl I have. Wonderful. And this is the second night in a row, after visiting my naturopath, that I've eaten nothing but candy corn after lunch. Oh wait, I had 2 small peices of cold pepperoni pizza on the drive to tutor tonight. So I'm doing better.
Back to the ex. Honest reason: he was too arrogant. I thought it would make me more confident, being around a confident person, but it didn't. And, um, he washed his bedding I think twice in the 3 months I was with him. And he worked a dirty job. The stuff was brown and greasy.
Okay, back to stir-fry.
Tuesday, October 04, 2005
I am awsome
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6 comments:
Too bad about the stir fry. About the ex you mentioned, it would probably be a good thing for him to read this in your blog since maybe he could improve a little. As for what he said, however, it must have felt so good to hear it.
word verification: mivex
What's a mivex? A new kind of credit card?
yes, you are.
If his arrogance were justified -like, he really is god's gift to humanity- then he wouldn't have to ask you to hook him up with a lady.
Phil-yes, but no. And we definitely do not need another type of credit card!
Ghost-thanks. :)
Shenry-Good point!
IMHO, I have found that being around arrogant people doesn't amke you feel more confident, it makes you feel worse, cause often they are putting others to make themselves feel that way. However, it is even more gratifying when someone like that compliments you. Sounds like in the long run, you are better off.
hahaha
I love when guys don't know what to do with themselves after a breakup... although in this guy's case, it's probably 'cos of the reasons you mentioned, and perhaps you should tell him lol...
(ooo word verification: onvyjii
that just sounds so cool!)
mmm I want stir fry now...
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