More words of Phoe-wisdom

Been talking online with Phoe about our boys and problems (Me vs. Tom with regards to pot smoking), and she put it all so well I had to share:

It just gets to the point where you (we) have to decide what's more important - Having these boys and making concessions for their behavior, or moving on, being single, and potentially finding someone better, or finding no one at all.

That leaves me with a lot to think about.

Before she logged off, she left me with this:

Relax, breathe, and write. Writing always makes things clearer. . .

So now I'm off to do what I gotta do.